Have you found her?

Love is precious, amongst many things I could say about love is that it’s divine more than just an emotion as it extends to attachment and trust. It blindfolds our eyes so that we won't be able to boast nor see the flaws of each other. Love is a powerful force that God uses to glue people together to a point where they commit to living with each other forever. Just to throw in some theology, it was love that made God to be touched by our lives even though we didn't want him from the first place.

Now, I will stop being poetic about this and ask a simple question: have you found her? have you found the woman you love? not the one you prefer to be with nor the one your friends prefer. Not the one you wanna brag about or like to be seen with. Did you find your soul mate whom you fall in love with each and every day? have you found your Cinderella, your queen, your babe, your chicken licken' finger lickin’ good, have you? 

If so, love her. Love her like you never loved before. Give her your heart, money is prioritised only in prostitution not in love. give her assurance that you are hers. since you have found her build with her. build your legacy with her, change your "my empire" to "our empire". Listen to her, no matter how stupid it is, listen to her still. Never mind other girls, they are only there for a while and you can't risk a queen for a mere servant.

Now, buddy, this needs you to be decisive. Shutting all others out is an indication of how you respect yourself, how disciplined you are. Yes, they are hotter, lighter, smarter but guess what? You have found yours(that's her). Value yourself enough to be exclusive, not because you don't wanna hurt her, but because you are goal driven and smart to know that others are just a distraction.

She has dreams, support them. As a man, make sure her dreams come true it's your responsibility. She is yours, make her happy. As a man, you gotta hustle for your woman and if she is a hustler too, that's a blessing.

Appreciate her, she chose you. And to the ladies: if you find a man who is going to do this, you better cover the bill at the restaurant and spoil your king. He is not trying, he is doing it!

💓Madina